When we see happy people, it often comes to mind “how the hell is it happy?”
Happiness is the goal of everyone, although the definition of happiness itself is always subjective and cannot be struck flat. Therefore, perhaps the question can be changed to make it easier to answer. How do happy people live their lives?
Being happy can be in many ways. Maybe everyone has a different way. One of them is to make things easier.
Easy, so living it is even more fun. Take a look at some of the things below. Usually happy people have a positive mind. Below is how.
1. Start the day by writing down three things that are grateful from the previous day. This will wake up optimists who will make you more cheerful
If we look for what this lack of life is, and what this lack of self is, maybe the answer will never run out. A lot. But isn’t that natural, because not everything can go the way you want?
Being grateful is one of the easiest ways to be happy. Because in the worst moments there are always positives that can be taken.
Therefore, a happy person will write down three things he is grateful for from the previous day every morning. Cobain deh, and feel for yourself the positive benefits.
2. Happy people know exactly when to fight and when to have fun. Therefore, he created a daily to-do list as needed
If followed, the work is endless. So is the desire for this and that. Understandably, his name is also a man who is never satisfied. But, all that work and desire can make you overwhelmed.
Happy people know that they don’t have to work it all out together. Hence, they create daily to-do lists based on need.
Which is more important and urgent, done first. This is how they manage their lives, so that they look relaxed and never pursued demands.
3. Happy people have a strong support system. He can take care of those closest to him, and doesn’t have time for people who just like to sing him.
It must be acknowledged that we are human beings, who are social beings. We need a support system, whether it’s family, spouses, or friends. This support system is a support in times of fatigue, as well as a place to seek help when confused.
A happy person has a strong support system, because he gives a lot of time to appreciate and treat the good people around him. While those who just like to denounce and origin comments only, he never thought.
4. Happy people are always honest. He understands that lying will only add to the burden of life, especially on himself
Sometimes, in order to look cool in people’s eyes, we often make incorrect information. We lie this and that, unknowingly forms the wrong image in people’s eyes. In the aftermath, we gasp ourselves to be like the image we shape it.
Add to the burden of life isn’t it? Not to mention the worry of being caught. Well, if you’re meticulous, happy people can usually be proud of themselves. One way is to be honest, especially to yourself.
He was able to admit his shortcomings and mistakes. That way, his life is simpler, too.
5. Happy people know that not all things have to be thought about. Therefore, he only focuses on things he thinks are worth thinking about
Humans are indeed extraordinary creatures that can create many “miracles”. But, whatever, humans are infinite beings. His abilities are limited.
Therefore, a happy person knows for sure that not everything in the world should be thought of. Too many complicated issues are out of reach. And too arrogant if he wishes he could understand and even get things done. So, as much as you can 🙂
6. When difficulty or incomprehension comes, he does not hesitate to ask or ask for help. He knows lifting the prestige won’t take him anywhere.
What is your best place to stay? Not even. Equally, they also run into problems, sometimes they don’t understand. But, they don’t torture themselves by feeding on prestige.
Fear is considered weak and stupid, then choose your own engap. In fact, there is nothing wrong with asking or asking for someone else’s help. You’re a human being, not a God who can do everything alone.